Life “part three”

Who is my soul mate? An everlasting question we all are seeking our soul mates & if we found them we will ask ourselves is he really my soul mate ? a real controversy from the beginning of time ,some try seeking them by star signs saying that a *** and a ***** can get along but a *** & a **** can’t .some are seeking the looks others are seeking the attitude while others are seeking the mind but nobody is sure about it a lot of mismatching & sometime it works. some have been waiting all their lives while others settle down for what they find. A real dilemma, specially that a lot of factors play a role; financial, our cultural backgrounds, the presumed social levels ! , our families, our friends & a lot more one fact should be stated just as a guide line there is never never a perfect soul mate there are always defects & that’s where love gets in to fill in the gaps to melt the two souls in one mould . I wonder if love mentioned in these quotes exists

-Love is not gazing at each other but looking together in the same direction.

-The love we give away is the only love we keep

-A house is made of walls & beams ; a home is built with love & dreams

-To give & not count the cost-this is what love is all about

-Let us not love in word but in deed and in truth

-Marriage does not fail ;people fail. All that marriage does is show people up

-The best proof of love is trust

-To love someone means to see him as God intended him .

-Stop looking for love; start being lovable

-Marriage endures when married couples love many things together, not merely each other.

-Love keeps no record of wrongs.

-Choose your love, and then love your choice.

-Respect is appreciation of the separateness of the other person, of the ways in which your spouse is unique.

-Brides and pregnant ladies are often radiantly beautiful, and happiness, not cosmetics is the cause.

-Anyone can love a rose, but it takes a great heart to love a leaf,

-One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is 'love'.

-Marriage is loving-together, not just living together.

-In marriage, love must be there, but friendship refines love into a vital partnership, and that's what makes a good marriage great

-Most important rule of marriage: toward both your spouse and yourself, behave only in ways that enhance your self-worth, dignity and integrity

-You don't love your wife for what she says but love what she says because you love her.

-Never allow moments of inconsiderateness overwhelm a lifetime of consideration.

-The successful marriage is not one in which there are no fights, but one in which fights are turned into opportunities for greater honesty and understanding

-Chains do not hold a marriage together ,It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years

-You don't marry one person; you marry three - the person you think they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to be as the result of being married to you.

-There's no way to win against your spouse, You both win or you both lose

-Happy couples make as many mistakes as unhappy couples. The difference is that happy couples admit them, laugh at them and learn from them. That is how they become happy couples.

-In marriage relations,” Maybe you 're right" is as powerful as the famous "I love you."

-A successful marriage requires falling in love many times with the same person .

-love isn’t measured by how many times you touch each other but how many times you reach each other .

-As we abandon our attempts to change our mate and instead focus on ourselves , changes surprisingly and predictably occur in the marriage .

-No couple is a perfect fit . So learn to respect differences & overlook rough spots .Recognize that your differences are not due to bad faith or lack of respect or interest .

-In every marriage more than a month old there are grounds for divorce . The trick is to find grounds for marriage .

-The successful marriage is not one in which there are no fights , but one in which fights are turned into opportunities for greater honesty and understanding .

-Once couples realize that they can’t be married and always be right , the rest is easy .

-We’re all fundamentally alone in this life, but friendship enriches marriage by causing us to feel accepted, understood & loved.

-Loving someone doesn't mean your goals are always identical. But if you want something, your mate wants it for you too.

-When spouses don t tell each other how they feel, it is as if there is an elephant in the room that never gets talked about.

-Marriage endures when married couples love many things together, not merely each other.

-A good marriage is like a good investment fund. You put everything you have into it during your productive life, and over the years it turns from silver to gold to platinum.

-Love is found by those who can live with human nature as it is. When you walk on the beach to watch the sunset you do not call out, "A little S more orange, please."

-The secret of being loved, and the secret of being lovely, is being unselfish .

-Being married doesn’t mean you’re glued to each other . One of the wonderful things about love is that it binds without crippling .

-Don’t critize your wife’s judgment ; See whom she married !

-love is not destroyed by a single failure , or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.

-let there be spaces in your togetherness .

-be courteous, not only to strangers and guests, but also to your spouse .

-For a good married life, remain near enough to keep each other warm and far enough apart-about a finger’s breadth- for breathing room .

-A marriage can easily rust from distrust .

-Do not expect your mat to change. Put yourself in his or her shoes. Would you want to be overhauled or expect your mate to love you as you are?

-To love someone is to be the only one to see a miracle invisible to others .
-Do not think everything is o.k. with your marriage . ity is either getting better or going down. Remain alert.

-If two people let a single instanct wedge itself between them , it grows into a month, a year and, it becomes too late.

-Variety is the spice of life, but it is better to have one spicy wife.

-Treasure each other in the recognition that you do not know how long you shall have each other .

-If you have love in your heart ,you will always have something to give .

-A good marriage is like the tide. No matter how long it is out , you know it will come back to you.

-Marriage is not the cause of divorce. It is forgetting what marriage means that cause divorce .

-Silence ,secretiveness and sudden outbursts may be signs of decaying relationship.

-Love doesn’t make the world go around but it makes the ride worthwhile .

-Happy couples make many mistakes as unhappy couples. The difference is that happy couples admit them, laugh at them and learn from them. That is how they become happy couples .

-When love and skill work together expect a master piece .